I use CCI#500 small pistol primers in my 9mm reloads, which you can obtain from these guys:
A great platform to learn the ins and outs of reloading is the Lee Turret Press, which is available as a kit with everything you need apart from the dies for the calibre you wish to reload for, for $330 from Workshop Innovation here in NZ.
Here is a youtube video which gives you an idea of the strengths of this press: Lee Turret Press video
You can move to a progressive press like the Dillon 550/650 or Hornady Lock-N-Load when you fully understand the fundamentals and need to increase your output per hour beyond what the Turret Press is capable of.
Bill Wright at Rusa Reloading Components stocks a good range of CMJ Frontier projectiles for your pistol and .223
The .223 FMJ projectiles are around the same price as the 9mm projectiles, making it an ideal option for range ammo.
Bill is very quick at turning around orders, and delivery is free for non-rural addresses.
If you would like to contact Bill please email email@example.com